Thursday, 21 April 2011

'People Who Need People'.

One of those weeks when nothing comes to mind to make blogging easy. Nothing of world shattering importance happens; at least in my little unimportant world.



I gave three talks last week. (There's Nowt so Strange as Folk.) A dinner club, food plus a speaker. At least the food is always popular! One old lady in the audience was one hundred and one next month. At least she stayed awake. I once asked an organiser if, as they enjoyed it as she suggested, why didn't they participate. 'They can't hear you, they're all deaf' was the reply.



Another group last week was a 'Cancer Self Help' group. a small group, all with the severest problems. Sometimes you don't feel like making an effort of an evening. But this group was one of the nicest groups I have ever met. Not a sign of self pity; lovely, positive people. Sometimes we need reminding that life is not fair, and we need to count our blessings, whatever our beliefs.



On my way to a third group I was lost and stopped on an estate to 'map read'. An elderly Land Rover, with an equally ancient driver hurried past, making noisy contact with my mirror. My destination was a cul-de-sac on the estate, the purpose, a talk to be given at a private house, the audience, all middle class ladies who have been meeting for all of forty years.



I arrived five minutes later and what should be parked in the street, an elderly Land Rover! The driver evidently one of my genteel audience awaiting my offerings on this tranquil night. The talk went well, I never did inform the lady driver of our earlier acquaintance. Go on, what would you have done? I just made sure I went home before the lady in question!



I glanced through my diary entry on this date many years ago. In 1959 I was in hospital with Albert. I thought Albert was remarkable. He happily ate all the 'goodies' people brought me on their visits. I was in no condition to eat anything after a serious motor accident. Albert too had serious injuries after an accident on a demolition site. His eating feat therefore was all the more remarkable as he was bedridden at a peculiar angle due to pelvic injuries. I remember thinking how remarkable were his stomach and bowels.



Twenty six years ago this week I met Bill. Bill was a worldly Geordie individual of dubious skills. These skills included devising a machine that slowed an electricity meter so that the reading bore no true relationship as to the amount of electricity you actually used. I liked Bill and we had something in common. I had an English Bull Terrier, called Buster. Bill too had a bull terrier. Plus we had something else in common. Bill knew Albert, in fact Albert was Bill's brother-in-law. Bill knew Albert very well. In fact so well that Bill went home one Sunday after a drinking session, found Albert asleep on the sofa, took his chance and cut Albert's throat. As you may have realised, Bill didn't like Albert!



A make believe world has its place when we wish to escape the real world for a while. (Went to see Arthur, courtesy of The Times Newspaper. Thoroughly enjoyed it. I suspect people will pre-judge it because of Russell Brand's antics in the past. Oh for an open mind!) But the real world has its characters and its moments. Met a couple who organise marathon running and the like. (Ultrarace) Jen Salter and Rory Coleman. A delightful couple whose dedication to fitness made me feel quite ashamed. (But only for a moment!) Rory has run just short of 1000 marathons, Jen's life involves frequent endurance events, triathlons and the like. Aren't people great, isn't life interesting when you look around you.

11 comments:

slommler said...

Yes! Life is interesting!! Have a blessed Easter weekend!
Hugs
SueAnn

RJR said...

As always an interesting read, thanks for sharing have a great weekend.

RJRDaydreamer

Lynn said...

Life IS very interesting when we look around, most agreed! Sadly, we just usually don't take the time to do so! Great post!

Andy said...

Your normal absorbing and fascinating observations on life in general Ken. As usual, enjoyed it immensely. Bonne weekend!

Akelamalu said...

What an interesting read! It made me laugh that the audience of your first talk were all deaf. :)

quilterliz said...

G'day Ken.A great read. I don't think your "unimportant" world is so unimportant after all.You are out there making an effort. I would like to hear one of your talks.Happy Easter.

Valerie said...

Very entertaining, as usual. I wish I could hear one of your talks. Bet anything I wouldn't sleep during it. Did you ever speak at a WI, I wonder?

Galen Pearl said...

Love the story about the talk to people who couldn't hear you. That was funny! Sometimes when I don't have anything in particular to write about, it gives me the opportunity to just notice and reflect on the ordinary things in my life. Great post.

Mallori said...

You crap me up. The deaf statement....hilarious.

Grumpy Old Ken said...

Thanks everyone. Life is still funny at times, even at seventy one!

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